Good News...Bad News

Good News - USCIS office has everything needed to process our I600a
Bad News - Person who gives the final approval is out on leave

Good News - More time to get our "things to do before we travel" list done
Bad News - Meeting Hayden is delayed

Good News - Plane tickets will be less expensive in July
Bad News - School starts August 2nd, too soon

Good News - God is in control and had this timing planned from the beginning
Bad News - I sometimes have trouble giving up my picture of "perfect timing"

Good News - GOD IS IN CONTROL.

Icing on the Cake

See that new "Our Adoption Timeline" over in the sidebar? And the new "Time in China" clock? I just have to tell you that I copied those ideas from my friend Julie's blog. She said I could.

Brandon and Julie Barnard have been friends of ours since they moved to Little Rock in the fall of 2007 to join the staff at Fellowship. We quickly learned that they, too, were waiting for a daughter from China. How fun! Even MORE fun is that their LID (Log-in Date: the day China registers a dossier and marks your "place in line," so to speak) is 08/17/07--EXACTLY the same date as ours! So, for a couple of years now when we see each other we compare notes, express sadness and frustration over the long wait, and try to say something encouraging. We had often dreamed of how exciting it would be to travel at the same time and fly back into Little Rock together with our new little ones.

When we received our wonderful unexpected referral phone call we wanted to share our news with everyone, but knew that it would be bittersweet for Brandon and Julie. I called Julie and she expressed such great excitement for us in her beautiful gracious way. But she was also honest. It IS hard to wait for something that God has placed such a desire in your heart for. It was good for us both to acknowledge all of that.

About 6 weeks later the kids and I were sitting at the kitchen table doing school in the middle of the afternoon, and we heard a knock on the door. It was Julie. She stopped by to tell us in person that they had received a phone call that day with the referral for their little girl!!! We stood on the front porch and hugged and cried and jumped up and down. The phrase that kept running through my head was, "my joy is made more complete."

A dear friend told me this week that God LOVES to put the icing on the cake. Perhaps that is why Paul describes Him as the One Who is able to do immeasurably more than we could ever ask or imagine in Ephesians 3:20. Getting to continue this journey with the Barnards is icing on the cake! We don't know yet if we'll actually travel at the same time, but we check in with each other nearly every day to get an update. I'm so thankful for a Father that loves to give good gifts to His children!

Another little bit of "icing" came as we were preparing a care package to send to Hayden. We made pictures of our family and then each one of us holding her picture. When I put them in the little photo album there were too many empty pages at the end of the book so Darrell suggested that each of us write a little note to Hayden to include next to our picture. Reading the notes written to her by our children was such a gift to us! They have given us permission to share them with you. We'll post them one at a time over the next few days.

I'm also working on the next "chapter" of our story.

Introducing Hayden Joy Jingshu Adcock

Hayden Adcock Graphic
Originally uploaded by D1musicjr

The Adcock Family is proud to introduce our soon-to-be family member Hayden Joy Jingshu Adcock!

Talk about it...Talk about it...Talk about it...Talk about it...(The Journey Part 1)

Did anyone else think of the song when they read that title? Sing it with me now...

Well, since we finally seem to be getting close to the "end" (of the waiting), I think maybe it is finally time to write about the "beginning" of this journey our family is on. And just so we all know:

• We're writing this for our sake, because of all those things I thought I would never forget and now can't remember. I don't want to forget one single detail. It is our story.
  
• We are writing for Hayden. It is her story.
• We're writing with the hope that we can be an encouragement to anyone who might happen by. Maybe we can be a part of your story.
  
• But most of all, we are writing so that we can express our gratitude to God for His amazing provision every step of the way. It is His story.
  

About 10 years ago Darrell began talking about adopting a daughter from China. We talked about it. He dreamed about it. But life went on. We lived in Las Vegas then and life was full throttle with a thriving ministry and three young children. Talk was as far as we got.

Fast forward to fall of 2001. We were transitioning from Vegas to New Albany, Indiana. (That's a subject for not just a different post, but a different blog! I'll let you know if I ever start one.) Adoption came to the front of our thoughts again as we anticipated a slower pace of life in an idyllic smaller town setting. We received the paperwork, but before we could complete it learned that the CCAA (China Center for Adoption Affairs) was not accepting dossiers during 2002, hoping to catch up on some of their backlog. That turned out to be a blessing for our family as 2003 was another difficult transition. (Again, a post for another blog. Maybe someday.)

Darrell continued to occasionally talk about adoption. I was always happy to talk about it. Talking is easy for me. But sometime in the spring of 2006 the time came to either move forward or stop talking about it. And, to be completely honest, I was okay to just stop talking about it. But Darrell wasn't. He was serious. He told me he felt strongly called to adopt a daughter from China. I gently reminded him that, 1) I was about to turn 40, 2) We home school three children, and 3) We don't have ANY extra money for something so expensive.

One day at church a lady came to me and said, "I hear you want to adopt a baby from China." I'm not sure what was in my Cheerios that morning, but I quite frankly replied, "No. My husband and children want to adopt a baby from China." And I proceeded to tell her my three well-rehearsed objections. Her response was one that only God could have orchestrated. "I was in my mid-40s, homeschooling two teenagers, and we didn't have any money for adoption either. Meet our little girl." All of my objections bowled down with one person. She and her husband invited us to dinner and encouraged us to pray out loud together every day until God brought us to the same page. We agreed to do that, and we are eternally grateful for their part of our story.

I know now what they knew then: If God has put adoption on your radar screen, there is no wondering what He wants you to do. James 1:27 tells us that, "Pure and genuine religion in the sight of God the Father means caring for orphans and widows in their distress and refusing to let the world corrupt you." We prayed. It only took a few days. We decided to say yes, and move forward as the Lord provides.

It was time to do more than talk about it.

To be Continued...

WE GOT OUR REFERRAL!

We are so excited! We thought, after a 3 year wait, we were more than 8+ years out! But on Thursday (3/12/2010) we got a call from Kimberly, our social worker from Dillon International. We will give more details once our official acceptance is in, but we can't wait for our little 5 year old girl to join her forever family. We should be traveling in the next 3-6 months to bring her home.

We want to thank all of you who have prayed with us, supported us, and asked us about her (and the process). Special thanks to insight of pediatrician, Dr. Susan Keathley.

It's going to be a fun Christmas! ~The Adcock Family

My Favorite Bee

Logan at SEEK; a science workshop at the 4-H Center.

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