I regret that it has taken so long to write again. I know there are those tiny, yet important to me, details that I have already forgotten. So much life happens in every single day right now. So, I'll go back and try to catch up.
Thursday, July 15th, we went to the American Consulate in Guangzhou with many other families we'd been with for the last couple of weeks. While there, an officer called our family to his station to approve, one last time, all the information that our Chinese daughter needs to become an American citizen. Then, we all stood together and raised our right hand to affirm...Okay, here is one of those details that I forgot. I have NO idea what we swore to. That ALWAYS happens to me. When something big like that is happening and I think, "Oh, remember every word of this. You're going to want to remember!" I PROMPTLY forget. Just like when Darrell got down on one knee and I realized he was about to propose to me. I focused SO much on wanting to remember what he said, that I'm not really sure I even heard it all! Anyway, that moment felt pretty huge. I wanted to get pictures, but the Consulate won't allow pictures inside or outside of the building.
That night we had dinner with a friend from Little Rock living in China. It was SO fun. He, obviously, speaks both Mandarin and English fluently. I loved asking him about his work and hearing his perspectives on China. I also loved hearing him interact with Jingshu and tell us what she was saying. That's probably one of the hardest parts of where we are right now--wanting SO badly to know EVERYTHING she is thinking and saying and having no way to do that. Well, actually, she is really good at communicating with facial expression and body language, but I know we're missing out on some GREAT commentary from her.
Our friend asked Jingshu if she was interested in knowing her English name. He explained that we each have two names: BaBa is also Darrell, Mommy is Tracy, GuGu is Parker and Logan, and JieJie is McKenna. He pointed to her and said Hayden. She, in no uncertain terms, let us, and everyone around, know that her name is Jingshu. Three times. Increasingly loudly. We are SO okay with that. We'd just heard that sometimes girls her age were excited about their new English name. If she NEVER wants to be Hayden Joy, I will be a sad for a little while, but I understand.
Jingshu also asked the waitress, when trying to decide what to drink with dinner, if the apple juice was sweet or if the watermelon juice was sweet. She chose the apple juice. Terry laughed, saying she seems like a girl who is accustomed to many choices, as if she is from a wealthy home instead of a foster home in Luizhou (a poor city in a poor province). I guess she adapted quickly!
McKenna and I had heard that we could get a great massage for not much money. THAT is speaking our language! Especially after 3 weeks sleeping on ironing board beds. So, we went Friday morning to a Chinese medical center. Amy, our favorite "local" on Shaiman Island, said the massages there are much better than what we could get at a barber shop (?) AND lunch is included!. Enough said. And she was right! It was amazing. It was more "clinical" than spa-like, and I had bruised muscles in my neck and shoulders for several days, but those muscles were surely more relaxed! After our massages, we looked at the menu for lunch and decided to skip it. By Friday, we had ALL had our fill of authentic traditional Chinese food. We opted for a nice cold frappacino from Starbucks on the way for McKenna to do some shopping. Unfortunately, she started feeling sick on the way and we had to get back to the room quickly. I'm not sure what was going on with her. Maybe the massage released some toxins that just had to get out, or something. Either way, she rested and felt enough better later in the day for some retail therapy. I hope we can post some pictures of the beautiful dresses she bought. Stunning!
If I could "make" Darrell do anything, I would've "made" him get a massage Saturday morning before we caught the train to Hong Kong. And, I think I had him talked into it. Unfortunately, instead of leisurely checking out of the hotel at noon and catching the train around 1:30, we had to leave our hotel at 9:30 am because there were no drivers available later in the day. So, I guess we'll just HAVE to go back sometime.
One smart thing we did was pack everything the six of us would need in Hong Kong in just two small suitcases so that the other eight were ready for the trip back to Little Rock. It took hours to get it all together, but we were SO glad we did it that way!
I don't know if we have pictures (that's Darrell's department) of the six of us walking through the train station with 10 suitcases, many backpacks and smaller bags, and a stroller, but can you just imagine it? I'm sure we DON'T have pictures of it, because no one had a free hand! There are three escalators in the Guangzhou train station. Yep. And no baggage carts. We made it, though. Several (if not all of us) had never ridden a train before. It was a fun experience to add to the list of "firsts".
Sitting in the train station, our guide, Wensi, asked Jingshu if she knew what was happening. She explained that we would ride the train to Hong Kong, spend two nights there, then get on a plane for two LONG rides, and finally be in America. She asked her if she was excited. Yes. She asked her if she likes her new family. Yes--listing each one of us by name. Then, Jingshu told Wensi about the two dogs at our house. She said she is afraid of dogs, but she knows she can just follow her BaBa and he will keep her safe. How precious! I just love how much she loves and trusts her BaBa. She is a smart and discerning girl, because I can't think of anyone better to love and trust (on this earth)!
We warned the kids at breakfast that this would be a difficult day and that it would require everyone to work together and keep tempers in check. I think that really helped. I was SO proud of our crew for good "can do" attitudes and few lost tempers.
When we arrived in Hong Kong, we had no idea how to get to our hotel. For the first time, we were on our own with no guide. We had made our own hotel reservations, with the help of a travel agent in California. In retrospect, there was probably a bit more information that I should've given her to help decide where we should stay in the city. Live and learn, right? Another good idea would've been to get advise from someone who has been there. Our hotel was about 40 minutes by taxi (3 of them this time because of all the luggage), an hour train ride from Disneyland, and nearly an hour in the hired big van to the airport. Disney was definitely the highlight of our stay in Hong Kong, except for Logan. That's worth a separate post.
We checked out of our hotel at 1 pm on Monday, but our flight didn't leave until 11:15 pm. That's a lot of time to fill with all those bags in tow, so we opted to leave the luggage at the hotel long enough to get lunch, then come back, call the van driver, and head on to the airport. At least it was air-conditioned there! In fact, the Hong Kong airport is the nicest one I have ever been in. It is beautiful, with nice big seating areas close to open spaces so that 5 year old girls can run their stroller around and around and around without scaring too many people; a great assortment of shops to peruse; and a food court that included....wait for it...Burger King! I have never enjoyed a chicken sandwich as much as I did that day!
The airline person at the check-in counter was so nice. It took SOME time to process six international travelers with ALL those bags. He even encouraged us to rearrange some stuff so we wouldn't have to pay the overweight baggage fees. Not only that, but he provided an extra bag, if we needed it! All the while, one of us was having a long and loud meltdown because she kept running so far ahead of the rest of us that Mommy decided it wasn't safe and had the audacity to make her sit in the stroller. If we weren't getting enough attention before, we were now! The airline people were SO gracious. Thank you, Jesus, for that!
Jingshu was SO, SO excited for that plane to take off. She could hardly contain it! i was a little taken by surprise by my tears, realizing that she was leaving her homeland and everything familiar for a very long time. She is a great traveler. Even when she got sick a few times, it didn't really upset her--no drama queen. We were so glad that both she and Darrell had extra clothes in the carry on bag! That flight was 12 hours and 40 minutes. Everyone took a sleep aid to help us sleep through as much of that as possible. I'm glad we did! Then, after 6 hours in the London airport, the next flight was 10 hours long. I encouraged everyone to NOT take a sleep aid for that one so we would feel like sleeping when we got home. That was fine. No sleep aid needed! Darrell and Jingshu were asleep before the plane pulled away from the airport and my book fell out of my hand before we took off. For some reason (probably because we were excited about coming home) that flight seemed like the longest to all of us. For a while I would look at my watch every 15 minutes, thinking an hour had passed. About 30 minutes from landing, McKenna and I took our little cosmetic bag to the "bigger" bathroom in the back of the plane and went in together to freshen up. That was fun and funny. Most funny was the look on face of the man waiting to come in after us. Obviously, he's not a girl, and maybe doesn't even know any girls well enough to understand that we NEEDED to brush our teeth and put on makeup TOGETHER after all we had been through!
Finally, the wheels touched down in Dallas and our little China doll became a US Citizen, regardless of what the USCIS officer told us in the airport.
Check back later today for the next post about the three hours it took us to get out of the Dallas airport and our WONDERFUL friends who drove all the way to Dallas to drive us home so that we wouldn't have to drive ourselves after traveling for so long.
Saturday, July 24, 2010
Final Days in China
Monday, July 19, 2010
Hong Kong to London
We're hangin' in the Hong Kong Airport. Flight leaves in 5 hours... At least there's free wifi! We'll be home in about 50 hours! Ugh! But, we saved a ton o' cash on airfare.
Been an amazing trip! We have felt your prayers at every moment ~ every turn. We put an exclamation point on the end of the trip with a day at Disneyland Hong Kong! We had a blast. Jingshu's first ride? Space Mountain ~ kind if a baptism be fire, if you ask me! She loved it!
All of us are doing great. I'm so proud of how our family has hung together, given and taken, and made it through the tough times.
More later,
Darrell Adcock
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Wednesday, July 14, 2010
REAL
I’m reminded of the passage in Acts 2:16-18 (New International Version)
No, this is what was spoken by the prophet Joel:
" 'In the last days, God says,
I will pour out my Spirit on all people.
Your sons and daughters will prophesy,
your young men will see visions,
your old men will dream dreams.
I was at a Worship Conference five years ago and had a profound experience in worship; a powerful impression that I had a daughter in China. Not just any daughter. Not just a random person some governmental agency would pull from a file. But one specific girl ~ as if McKenna, my own flesh and blood ~ my daughter, were stuck in China and she were waiting on me to find a way to get her home. It truly was a confirmation of this dream and a strong motivator to keep moving forward.
As a middle-aged man of 46, I’ve lived long enough to experience that there are a few moments in life that seem more real than others. All of life is real, but every once in awhile, at certain times, you sense a gravity of time; a fully present moment. They are marked by fuller understanding of consequences of your choices. You feel the heaviness of the risk that is at stake. You taste the powerful potential that lies in wait if you take the next step.
I have experienced time like that when I was eight-years-old and knew I needed to surrender my life to Christ. I knew it on my wedding day as I watched the love of my life beautifully walk down that aisle. I experienced it driving Tracy home from the hospital with my first-born locked safely in the back seat ~ my knuckles nervously gripping the wheel like I was taking my driving test all over again.
I felt it again last Monday. We had just gotten back to the hotel in Nanning with Jingshu. There was incredible euphoria that she was finally with us and the amazing relief that she wasn’t overwhelmed with fear; but seemed playful and curious. The initial hours had passed. I was laying on the bed and had that feeling again.
This was one of the most real moments of my life. Nothing could be bigger stakes than this. Taking this little precious life. Changing its course forever. Changing our life forever.
A few days later we were driving to Liuzhou City to visit Jingshu’s hometown. With her in the van, changing the clothes on her doll for the hundredth time this hour, I looked at her. Looked out the window with Alison Krauss in my headphones. And cried.
Do you know what it’s like to touch your dream? To hold it in your hands? To hear it call your new name? Those chances don’t come along every day.
Some dreams come and we celebrate their completion. A certain job or accomplishment. A level of influence or appreciation. And when it comes, we’re glad.
But then there are dreams, that when they come, are just beginning. This one calls me Ba Ba. This dream has to sleep with a foot or a hand touching me no matter which way she flips and sleeps across the bed. This one, despite being fearless and strong, plays her sympathy card and “needs” me to kiss her every minor bump.
This dream is finally… real.
Bubblebath Breakthrough
There have been major breakthroughs in the last 24 hours! The first came during the drive to the Xiangjiang Animal Safari Park Tuesday morning. We were joined by Serana, a very fun, VERY bright 17 year old girl from Guangzhou. She is the daughter of our guide, Wensi. Wensi couldn’t be with us for the day, so she asked if we would like for her daughter to go with us. Serana speaks both English and Mandarin, so she was able to be our translator. We probably could’ve made it without a translator, and the park was fun, but not fun enough for the extremely hot weather. So, the real treat of the day was having Serana to tell us what Jingshu was saying. Jingshu chatters constantly, as if we can understand everything she is saying. I guess that’s fair. We talk to her as if she understands us.
On the drive, we were introducing ourselves to Serana and Jingshu would say, “Ni hao, Parker!” “Ni hao, McKenna!” etc. I had already been wondering if Jingshu had a problem calling me Ma Ma because she already has one of those and, at this point, doesn’t see a need for another one. I mentioned that to Serana and so she pointed to me and called me Tracy. Immediately, Jingshu said, “Ni hao, Tracy!” That was the first time she had addressed me by any name, so I was pleased, but quickly realized she can’t call me “Tracy” for ever, so why start now. I asked Serana to refer to me as “Mommy” instead of “Ma Ma”. From that point on, Jingshu has addressed me frequently, even with enthusiasm! Every once in a while, she will forget and say Ma Ma instead, but not often.
That was a GOOD step in the right direction. It didn’t, however, keep her from choosing anyone over me and at times, still being downright rude. But, that’s OK. I am better able to deal with it now. In fact, Darrell suggested that perhaps we were trying too hard. You can’t coax someone to love you, especially when they are in crisis, and you serve as a constant reminder of that crisis. I get that. So, in general, we stopped “forcing” the issue and tried to just go with the flow and enjoy any bit of interaction she would accept.
Serana told me on the drive back home that she could tell Jingshu was missing her foster family because at every animal exhibit, she would ask Serana where their Ma Ma and Ba Ba were. And when she saw a picture of a bear crying, she asked Serana if the bear was missing his Ma Ma. It breaks my heart to imagine how her heart must be breaking. I have to continue to trust that this is God’s plan for this little girl, and that He has great plans for her life.
Fast forward to later last night. I was tired and had been HOT and SWEATY, so I decided to take a bubble bath. And, I decided to make it a very relaxing time by taking my book and a glass of juice, turn on the classical music that plays in the bathroom and just let everyone else take care of Jingshu for a while. I doubted if she’d even notice that I was gone. I used two whole hotel-sized bottles of bubble bath, since it had become clear to me that she doesn’t like bubbles in her bath. (In fact, I wonder if that was part of the problem to start with. More on that at the end of the post.)
It wasn’t long before she popped into the bathroom to say hello. Sweet Logan tried to get her out, and keep her out, guessing that I could use some time alone. She kept coming in. I told Logan to just let her. If this was the moment she chose to interact with me, bring it on! I had someone take my book and my glass out so we could just play and nothing would get messed up. So, she would go out of the bathroom and turn off all the bathroom lights (the switches are outside the room) and I would “scream” for help. She would come in and laugh, then go out and turn the lights back on. Then she’d grab a handful of bubbles and clap her hands together or blow them. Apparently she likes them as long as she can control where and how they touch her. This went on for 30 minutes or so. Finally she came in while I was washing my hair and I asked she wanted to wash my hair. She did it! That was huge! She then used the hand-held shower thingy to rinse my hair and decided it was pretty cool to spray my face, too. The shower is another thing she doesn’t like, so maybe getting to control that was good for her, too. I just kept praying that the Lord would protect me from whatever we’re supposed to be avoiding in the water, because it was going up my nose and in my mouth. But, we were laughing and having a GOOD time. I felt sorry for the rest of my family, knowing all the ruckus must have been annoying. They were just thankful, along with me, that she was choosing to be where I was and we were having fun. I love my family! Later, we sat together and watched her favorite nighttime show on DVD on the computer. I asked her if I could pull up a chair and she said yes! That was new. And from that point on, everything has changed.
Today Parker, McKenna and Logan went shopping with Serana. What a great experience for them! They rode the metro (subway) to her neighborhood, went to a dim sum restaurant for lunch and then shopped in “real” Chinese stores, not ones targeted to tourists. Wait ‘til you see the LED (scrolling digital readout) belt buckle and black and yellow shoes Parker bought. I really do love that he is confident enough to do his own thing, style wise. Really, I do. Mostly, I just love him.
Darrell and I had the morning with Jingshu to ourselves. We were walking through the hotel to see the waterfall pool and she was holding Darrell’s hand. At one point, she let go to skip ahead and Darrell grabbed my hand. When she looked back and saw me holding his hand, right where she had been, she got mad. I told him to grab her hand with his other hand. She liked that. And then…Get this...She let go of his hand and came around to GRAB MY HAND! We were both SO excited!
We spent the afternoon and evening with our friends, the Smiths. Jingshu and Li Na (her Chinese name. Her American name is Kelina. Don’t you just LOVE that?) have become fast friends. We took a taxi to their hotel, ate a dim sum lunch (small, bite-sized portions of several different dishes), then walked back to the island. The White Swan Hotel is located on Shamin Island. Darrell and Matt took the girls to the Swan Room to play while Sheri and I did some shopping. When we returned to the hotel, we decided to order Papa John’s pizza for dinner. I don’t know if you’ve ever seen seven people more excited about pizza! I’m not sure the little girls were quite as excited, but they ate it. We took the girls for a swim in the beautiful waterfall pool. Needless to say, Jingshu fell asleep quickly tonight. And I will go to sleep one happy Mommy.
Lessons learned: Read. Get educated. Try to keep expectations low, and expect to be surprised by how hard this is. Then, follow your educated gut feeling. I had been trying so hard to do things by the book: do everything for her, try to get her to be dependent on me, make eye contact, interact, interact, interact. The more I tried, the more she resisted. In trying to do everything just right, I was probably doing everything differently than her foster mom (like putting bubbles in the bath or combing her hair a certain way, or honestly, just trying to do those things for her when she’s used to doing them on her own!), continually reminding her of what she is missing. Jingshu is fiercely independent. We knew that was a possibility and is likely her survival strategy. But, let me tell you, I believe this little girl would be strong and independent if she hadn’t been through so much in her short little life. Finally, our educated gut feeling was to let her come to me. And finally, she did. I know to expect moments of rejection again. She will continue to grieve for the family she lost and remember that she doesn’t need me because she has a MaMa. That’s okay. I’ll look back at this blog post and have hope. And, I’ll likely run another big bubble bath!
Monday, July 12, 2010
Arkansans visit French "Wal-Mart" in China
I’ve been working on a blog post for the past hour or so. I hit post and something crazy happened. So, just in case I lost it all, I’m going to try to recreate it again. HOW FRUSTRATING, but worth it!
The last few days have been such a blur! I hope a don’t forget details that I will one day want to remember.
Friday evening we flew from Nanning to Guangzhou. This was Jingshu’s first airplane ride ever. We wondered if she’d be frightened, or at least apprehensive. NO. We had a hard time keeping her close as she wanted to run onto the plane. The only thing she didn’t like was having to wear a seatbelt. The most memorable part was when we had a bit of a rough landing, she grabbed the armrests and LAUGHED! Darrell told his brother that she eats fear for breakfast! Ha!
We arrived in Guangzhou late and at 11 pm still had not had dinner so we took our family of six down to the cafe in the hotel (the famous White Swan--more about it later). Three of us ordered “mini meals.” 850 yuan (~$126!!!) later, we knew we had to make a different plan for the next eight days in this hotel!
We decided that we would go to the breakfast buffet (included with our room rate and definitely not your typical American breakfast buffet because it includes fried noodles, dumplings [McKenna’s favorite], steamed vegetables, cold cuts and cheeses, and salad plus scrambled eggs, made-to-order omelets, bacon, ham, what they call sausage [we call hotdogs], fresh fruit, yoghurt, cereals, pastries, etc.) late in the morning and then eat a late lunch OUT of the hotel and a light dinner in the room, or visa versa.
That’s how we learned about Carrefour. Saturday morning, after taking Jingshu for her medical exam and TB skin test, we took taxis--it takes two because each only holds three or four people--downtown. Carrefour is a “hypermarket” according to their website, but it was almost exactly like the Wal-Mart we visited in Nanning. It is several stories high, except this one goes down into the ground and has almost EVERYTHING. We even found peanut butter and jelly! They didn’t have deli meat, like ham and turkey, but they did have more fresh whole (head and feet attached) chickens sitting on ice in the open air than I could count. And have you ever seen a black-skinned chicken, except on Discovery Channel? I hadn’t until now. There was also a large container of live somethings that looked like fat eel to me, but someone said they were catfish. Let’s just say they didn’t look like any catfish I’d ever seen! We didn’t buy any of those, but we did buy bread, pb, jelly, chips, fruit, yoghurt, cookies, milk-in-a-box, cereal, juice, bottled water, coke, sprite, a block of cheddar cheese, these weird jello-in-a-pouch-with-chunks things that Jingshu likes, and noodle meals. Think Ramen on steroids. They are larger and come in a container with dried vegetables and seasonings so you just have to add boiling water. Our rooms have a small refrigerator and a hot pot for boiling water. No microwave. We left there having only spent 365 yuan (~$54) with enough for several meals and snacks. MUCH better plan!
Sunday we went to the Toy Wholesale Center with the Humphries, Howard and Kim and their three China girls (we wrote about them earlier). This place is HUGE and has EVERYTHING, except food! Two towers with six stories each, plus one underground. People from around the world come here to “go to market” and it made me think of Tracee Harrison, who goes to market for their Cornerstone Pharmacy. We met a lady from Ghana who comes several times a year. Darrell, the boys, and Jingshu shopped for a bit before heading back to the hotel. McKenna and I stayed with the Humphries, and even a bit longer, after they decided to leave. We were there for about four hours and only saw the first two floors of one tower! The biggest adventure of the day came when we spent ONE HOUR trying to get a taxi to bring us back to the White Swan. I won’t soon forget McKenna and I going from one corner of this HUGE intersection, to the other, to the other, and some spots in between, trying to hail a taxi. I held the stroller and our bags while she would run from taxi to taxi seeing if they were empty and if they were, if they would take us to our hotel. (That's how it is done here.) A few did not want to drive that far because they can make more money on more frequent, shorter trips. The lady from Ghana told us this is normal at that time of day. I was so thankful for her! She spoke English and gave me hope that we’d eventually make it. And, we did! I LOVE my non-drama-queen girl who made that time a fun memory instead of a crisis!
This morning, after taking Jingshu back to the medical center to check her TB test (which was negative, thankfully!), I took her to the Swan Room, a playroom on the first floor of the hotel set up by Mattel for adoptive families to use while here. We’d originally planned to make it a family event, but Darrell suggested that it be a special time just for us. I’m so glad he did! For a while, she only wanted to play by herself and yelled at me if I tried to interact with her. But eventually, she did invite me in. She likes to work on projects, and so do I, so we put together a huge foam floor puzzle. And then we pushed stuffed animals around on riding toys. She would take my hands and put them right where she wanted them--either on the backs of the stuffed animals or on the handle bars of the riding toy. It was fun to see how she was able to communicate with me, even though we don’t speak the same language.
When it was time to go, we held hands and skipped down the hall. Right up until she let go and took off running as fast as she could and got into an elevator. I was just barely able to make it in before the doors closed! I really think this was her way of distancing herself again. I wonder if she feels disloyal to her foster mom, whom she loves dearly, when she has fun with me. There are several families here adopting their second, third, and even fourth children. They give me such hope and encouragement with their stories of similar experiences. I am so thankful that God has provided community, even on the other side of the world.
While Jingshu napped, the kids and I loaded up all our dirty clothes and took it to one of the many places that offer laundry service near the hotel. We took 26 shirts, 26 pairs of underwear, 10 children’s clothing items, 8 shorts, 8 pairs of socks, 5 undershirts, 3 dresses, and 1 nightgown. The total cost: $30. Can you imagine how long it would take to hand wash, and even more, how long it would take to dry all of that in the 74% humidity? And can you imagine the site of all of that laundry hanging around these two relatively small hotel rooms? HA!
Logan and I got to do some shopping in the little shops on the island this afternoon, just the two of us. I have really missed one-to-one time with him! He worked so hard early this summer to earn money for this trip and he came with a few things in mind that he really wanted. He found them today, but at one point had tears in his eyes because he was afraid he wouldn’t have enough money left to buy nice gifts for the people on his list. After some good bargaining, he had plenty to do both. Just wait ‘til you see what he bought today! I SO love that boy!
Darrell and Parker didn’t feel well today, so they stayed in the rooms and rested so that they felt up to meeting some new friends for dinner. Matt and Sheri Smith are here adopting Li Na, a four year old girl. They also have three other children, two sons and a daughter. Li Na and Jingshu have become fast friends! The Smiths are having similar trouble (even harder) with Li Na rejecting Matt. We talk about strategies, things we’ve read, things we’ve heard, what works and doesn’t, and what we believe, but mostly just support each other. Again, I’m thankful for community!
We ate at Lucy’s, a place that comes highly recommended by the seasoned veterans and newbies, alike. Lucy’s serves western food, like chicken tenders and french fries, onion rings, milk shakes, pasta, and hamburgers. McKenna was MOST excited because our guide told us today that she like the large lemon drink and we assumed she meant lemonade. That’s the thing McKenna is missing most from home right now, except for friends, of course. Well, it was actually their version of iced tea. It was served in a large jar (southern style) with a small pitcher of simple syrup (sugar and water) for sweetening, and several slices of lemon. It tasted like instant Nestea! And it was yucky! But everything else was good, and she liked the cheesecake, another of her favorite things.
Tomorrow we will join the Smiths again, and go to a safari park. I’ve heard that we’ll get to hold a baby tiger and see pandas. We’ll take some pictures and write some commentary, I’m sure!
Sunday, July 11, 2010
To my Girlfriends who worked so hard to help us find LS/LP...
I keep forgetting to write about the one bit of information that we got before we came that apparently does not apply to the southern provinces of China in July during the 100 year heat wave: that we must keep her in long sleeves and long pants at all times out of the hotel. And maybe not the northern provinces, either, but I don't know that for sure! EVERYTHING I read before we came said we must, even though it would be hot. NOBODY here is complying with that. So, we have a drawer full of really cute outfits that will return home perfectly clean and ready for fall. We are having fun shopping for shorts and t-shirts and sundresses. Prices here are really good, so it's fine.
Thank you to Julie, Stephanie, Suzanne and friends, and any others who helped us find what we thought we needed. It will be a fun memory for the book!
Steph, the clothes that fit best are the 5s but the 4Ts work, too.
